distal demonstrative, something far off removed from both speaker and listener: that, yon / particularly, male personal third person pronoun: he / by extension from he: boyfriend

he; boyfriend

different, separate, another

(informal) having no plan / (informal) unplanned

plans for one's career; career plan

to come (toward the speaker/writer) / (specifically, of a sensation) to come and stimulate / (と来たら (to kitara)) when it comes to

next..., coming...

different, separate, another

not particularly; not specially (used with a negative verb)

difference / another / exception