distal demonstrative, something far off removed from both speaker and listener: that, yon / particularly, male personal third person pronoun: he / by extension from he: boyfriend

he; boyfriend

everyone, everybody / all, everything

everyone

careless, thoughtless, inattentive

carelessness, thoughtlessness, inattention

to pay attention

requiring attention

stand out, attract notice

(idiomatic) to grab attention; to attract notice; to be eye-catching