oneself / first-person pronoun: I, me (often shows the speaker's lower position in a hierarchy than the addressee) / (Kansai) you

he / distal demonstrative, something far off removed from both speaker and listener: that / boyfriend

distal demonstrative, something far off removed from both speaker and listener: that, yon / particularly, male personal third person pronoun: he / by extension from he: boyfriend

he; boyfriend

cannot

get, acquire, gain, obtain, win, catch / be able to, can / (in the form ざるを得ない following the imperfective form of a verb) cannot help but doing, cannot but do

to obtain (benefit) / be able to, -able

(idiomatic) to take seriously, to believe to be true

(informal) lewdness, lechery / (informal) a lecher

lecherous, lewd