oneself / first-person pronoun: I, me (often shows the speaker's lower position in a hierarchy than the addressee) / (Kansai) you

he / distal demonstrative, something far off removed from both speaker and listener: that / boyfriend

distal demonstrative, something far off removed from both speaker and listener: that, yon / particularly, male personal third person pronoun: he / by extension from he: boyfriend

he; boyfriend

forget oneself / be beside oneself

You'll be convinced if you listen to me.

in the middle of a conversation; on the other line of the phone

unsuccessful

failure

completion bonus, fee paid upon success of a project, contingent fee