Gender only exists as a social construct, and is not confined to one's birth sex.

It is easy to lose sight of one's initial objective, becoming caught up in subtasks or in tasks only tangentially related to the original goal.

Each person can make his or her own decisions.

There is no guarantee that you will get the result you want.

Alternative form of you pays your money and you takes your choice

Alternative form of you pays your money and you takes your chances

(Canada, US, idiomatic, often computing) It may work differently in your situation, or be different in your experience.

(idiomatic, imperative) Don't wait. Said cynically to suggest that what has just been mentioned is unlikely to happen soon or at all.

Asks the interlocutor to give their phone number for subsequent communication.

(idiomatic, informal) Do what you will, whatever makes you happy.