standoffishness

noun

The state, quality, or condition of being standoffish or aloof and unsociable; aloofness.

Her standoffishness made it difficult for others to approach her.

意味（1）

The state, quality, or condition of being standoffish or aloof and unsociable; aloofness.

Many of the seemingly bizarre courtship practices of English males—the cautiousness, reserve and apparent stand-offishness that foreign females complain about—are characteristic features of ‘negative politness’.