This is the epitome of what Israelis call firgun, giving others a leg up and letting them bask in the glory of success.

Lesser peachtree borer (Synanthedon pictipes) numbers cannot be compared with those of the previous year, when live females were used as pheromone sources.[…]The test site was a portion of a commercial peach orchard near Patoka, IN, consisting of 10-12 yr. old Redskin peachtrees.

having a black grandchild specifically so you can say the gamer word

a Chinese delicacy