イネーブラーは依(い)存(ぞん)症(しょう)者(しゃ)を破(は)滅(めつ)させるために手(て)を貸(か)しているわけではありません。その逆(ぎゃく)に「ここで手(て)を貸(か)さなければ、この人(ひと)は破(は)滅(めつ)してしまう」という相(あい)手(て)を思(おも)いやる気(き)持(も)ちから手(て)を貸(か)していることが大(たい)半(はん)です。
Inēburā wa izon shōsha o hametsu saseru tame ni te o kashiteiru wake de wa arimasen. Sono gyaku ni “koko de te o kasanakereba, kono hito wa hametsu shiteshimau” to iu aite o omoi yaru kimochi kara te o kashiteiru koto ga taihan desu.Enablers do not mean to help addicts harm themselves. On the contrary most think, “If I do not help, this person will destroy herself,” and help out of feelings of compassion.
Inēburā wa izon shōsha o hametsu saseru tame ni te o kashiteiru wake de wa arimasen. Sono gyaku ni “koko de te o kasanakereba, kono hito wa hametsu shiteshimau” to iu aite o omoi yaru kimochi kara te o kashiteiru koto ga taihan desu.Enablers do not mean to help addicts harm themselves. On the contrary most think, “If I do not help, this person will destroy herself,” and help out of feelings of compassion.
