he / distal demonstrative, something far off removed from both speaker and listener: that / boyfriend

ghastliness, misery

death; downfall, collapse; end of life; last moment / the extinction of a family

miserable, tragic, woeful, sorrowful

war (conflict involving organized use of arms)

accomplish, attain, complete

井桁: well lining, or the symbols #, ＃, or ♯

井桁: a surname

下駄: Traditional Japanese wooden clogs.

a puteal: a wellhead for a water well, traditionally consisting of a wooden enclosure framed along the top, and possibly bottom, with stout wooden beams crossed at the ends / the symbols #, ＃, or ♯