success / success in life, achievement in the world

a job; an occupation; work / job, work (task) / (physics) work, change of energy

succeed / be successful in life

to work

he / distal demonstrative, something far off removed from both speaker and listener: that / boyfriend

distal demonstrative, something far off removed from both speaker and listener: that, yon / particularly, male personal third person pronoun: he / by extension from he: boyfriend

he; boyfriend

(chiefly women's speech) first person singular pronoun: I, me

(と〜) thinking that […] (with the next clause explaining that the truth is contrary to expectations)

to seem, to appear