charming; attractive (pleasing or appealing to the senses), enthralling

silver hair of a middle-aged man

not ... at all

even if ...,...cannot

very, exceedingly, awfully / (before a negative form) not at all, at all, by no means

allure, charm, glamour

he / distal demonstrative, something far off removed from both speaker and listener: that / boyfriend

distal demonstrative, something far off removed from both speaker and listener: that, yon / particularly, male personal third person pronoun: he / by extension from he: boyfriend

he; boyfriend

a target, a mark, a bullseye / an objective, an object (of doing something)