excessive, unnecessary, unneeded, superfluous

excessiveness, needlessness

excessively, needlessly, even more

trouble

to have trouble (with something) / to be bothered (by something), to be vexed, to be troubled, to be in trouble

uneasy, worrying

anxiety, concern, worry, uneasiness / good offices

to worry, be anxious / take care of, help

he / distal demonstrative, something far off removed from both speaker and listener: that / boyfriend

distal demonstrative, something far off removed from both speaker and listener: that, yon / particularly, male personal third person pronoun: he / by extension from he: boyfriend