opinion / advice, a suggestion

to advise, to suggest / to admonish

being poles apart

suggestion box

things that are very different

10000 li, or 5000 km / (figuratively) very long distance, immeasurable distances

he / distal demonstrative, something far off removed from both speaker and listener: that / boyfriend

distal demonstrative, something far off removed from both speaker and listener: that, yon / particularly, male personal third person pronoun: he / by extension from he: boyfriend

he; boyfriend

(chiefly women's speech) first person singular pronoun: I, me