trifling with

trifle with, play with, make sport of

misfortune, adverse fortune

misfortunate

a lifetime, one's whole life

a male given name

fate; destiny

(poetic) Alternative spelling of 定め (“fate; destiny”)

he / distal demonstrative, something far off removed from both speaker and listener: that / boyfriend

distal demonstrative, something far off removed from both speaker and listener: that, yon / particularly, male personal third person pronoun: he / by extension from he: boyfriend