掴む: to grab

finally, at last / (with a negative) in the end

not giving up until succeeding / the ups and downs of life

Extended shinjitai form of 摑

abduct

success / success in life, achievement in the world

succeed / be successful in life

he / distal demonstrative, something far off removed from both speaker and listener: that / boyfriend

distal demonstrative, something far off removed from both speaker and listener: that, yon / particularly, male personal third person pronoun: he / by extension from he: boyfriend

he; boyfriend