unstable: anxious because of the inability to get what one wants

instability: the state of anxiety caused by the inability to get what one wants

to feel / to sense / to experience

dissatisfied

dissatisfaction, discontent, disapproval

desire, want, craving

to desire, to crave

a job; an occupation; work / job, work (task) / (physics) work, change of energy

to work

he / distal demonstrative, something far off removed from both speaker and listener: that / boyfriend