even if one says

antiquated, old-fashioned

archaism

to use / to employ / to make use of, to apply / to spend

needed, necessary

need, necessity

he / distal demonstrative, something far off removed from both speaker and listener: that / boyfriend

distal demonstrative, something far off removed from both speaker and listener: that, yon / particularly, male personal third person pronoun: he / by extension from he: boyfriend

he; boyfriend

take