(literally, ordinary mind) usual mind, one's natural self

even if one says

to keep up; to retain / to maintain

always

important, weighty / valuable

importance, weight / value

common, ordinary, usual / normal, not emergency

commonness, ordinariness, usuality / normality

he / distal demonstrative, something far off removed from both speaker and listener: that / boyfriend

distal demonstrative, something far off removed from both speaker and listener: that, yon / particularly, male personal third person pronoun: he / by extension from he: boyfriend