to make judgement based on the long run, rather than on the current state of affairs

always

bear in mind / try, endeavor, intend

prying eyes; people who may be watching / the quality of being perceptive, observant / appearance, look

he / distal demonstrative, something far off removed from both speaker and listener: that / boyfriend

distal demonstrative, something far off removed from both speaker and listener: that, yon / particularly, male personal third person pronoun: he / by extension from he: boyfriend

he; boyfriend

long / (time) long, lengthy

to see, to watch, to observe, to look at something / to look over, to examine, to judge / to take care of, to look after, to keep an eye on somebody

disgraceful, shameful, indecent / shabby, unsightly