ability, talent

spend, pass (time); have (a holiday) / do something too much, carry something too far

Alternative spelling of 拘る

to be in relation to, to be relevant to, to be involved in; to be involved in a negative way: to meddle, to interfere; to have a substantial effect on something, to endanger something; to get hung up on something

unfortunately obscure

unfortunate obscurity

he / distal demonstrative, something far off removed from both speaker and listener: that / boyfriend

distal demonstrative, something far off removed from both speaker and listener: that, yon / particularly, male personal third person pronoun: he / by extension from he: boyfriend

he; boyfriend

age, era, period (of time) / the times, spirit of the age / antiquity / a time in one's life, one's days (in college etc.)