situation (position vis-à-vis surroundings) of something that changes

control / grasp (understanding)

to have under control / to grasp (to understand)

he / distal demonstrative, something far off removed from both speaker and listener: that / boyfriend

distal demonstrative, something far off removed from both speaker and listener: that, yon / particularly, male personal third person pronoun: he / by extension from he: boyfriend

he; boyfriend

perfect, completed

completeness / perfection

everything

(colloquial) current boyfriend