(proscribed, informal) being different

juvenile shellfish

違い: difference

違う: to be different; to differ (from something)

he / distal demonstrative, something far off removed from both speaker and listener: that / boyfriend

distal demonstrative, something far off removed from both speaker and listener: that, yon / particularly, male personal third person pronoun: he / by extension from he: boyfriend

he; boyfriend

elder sister

older sister

(chiefly women's speech) first person singular pronoun: I, me