self-control, self-restraint

to keep up; to retain / to maintain

saying abusive things / abusive language

to hurl abuse at

he / distal demonstrative, something far off removed from both speaker and listener: that / boyfriend

distal demonstrative, something far off removed from both speaker and listener: that, yon / particularly, male personal third person pronoun: he / by extension from he: boyfriend

he; boyfriend

vicious insults, harsh verbal abuse

everything

(colloquial) current boyfriend