even if one says

reserve / hesitation / forethought, foresight

to restrain oneself; to have restraint; to be reserved; to hold back / to refrain from (doing something) / to stand on ceremony

opinion / advice, a suggestion

to advise, to suggest / to admonish

oneself / first-person pronoun: I, me (often shows the speaker's lower position in a hierarchy than the addressee) / (Kansai) you

he / distal demonstrative, something far off removed from both speaker and listener: that / boyfriend

distal demonstrative, something far off removed from both speaker and listener: that, yon / particularly, male personal third person pronoun: he / by extension from he: boyfriend

he; boyfriend

to say, to tell somebody / to call, to name, to give a name / to cry, to call, to make a noise (such as an animal)