hardship

(idiomatic) obtain

a hand / a handle, grip / a paw, foreleg / a way of acting, means / (board games) a move, play

to overcome, to surmount / to climb (over) / to surpass, to overtake

success / success in life, achievement in the world

succeed / be successful in life

he / distal demonstrative, something far off removed from both speaker and listener: that / boyfriend

distal demonstrative, something far off removed from both speaker and listener: that, yon / particularly, male personal third person pronoun: he / by extension from he: boyfriend

potential of 入る (hairu)

to put (something) in / to admit (someone) in / to tuck in (clothing)