love affair / lover

Alternative spelling of 拘る

to be in relation to, to be relevant to, to be involved in; to be involved in a negative way: to meddle, to interfere; to have a substantial effect on something, to endanger something; to get hung up on something

to avoid

to avoid

he / distal demonstrative, something far off removed from both speaker and listener: that / boyfriend

distal demonstrative, something far off removed from both speaker and listener: that, yon / particularly, male personal third person pronoun: he / by extension from he: boyfriend

he; boyfriend

(idiomatic) to avoid being seen; to be clandestine

(Internet slang) avoiding search engines; making something difficult to reach via a search engine