obscurantism (deliberate obscurity or vagueness)

blame, criticize, deprecate, point fingers

accusation, criticism, blame

unenlightened

ignorance

support

support

he / distal demonstrative, something far off removed from both speaker and listener: that / boyfriend

distal demonstrative, something far off removed from both speaker and listener: that, yon / particularly, male personal third person pronoun: he / by extension from he: boyfriend

he; boyfriend