understanding, comprehension / appreciation

reconsideration / reflection, introspection, meditation, contemplation

regret, reflect on one's actions, contemplate, search one's conscience

to chastise

action; behavior

to act

understand, comprehend / appreciate

oneself / first-person pronoun: I, me (often shows the speaker's lower position in a hierarchy than the addressee) / (Kansai) you

he / distal demonstrative, something far off removed from both speaker and listener: that / boyfriend

distal demonstrative, something far off removed from both speaker and listener: that, yon / particularly, male personal third person pronoun: he / by extension from he: boyfriend