one loses his reputation as a man

gambling

Alternative form of 廃れる

to lose

(intransitive) to lose; to be defeated / (transitive) to lower in price

experience (an experience or one's (overall) experience)

to experience

he / distal demonstrative, something far off removed from both speaker and listener: that / boyfriend

distal demonstrative, something far off removed from both speaker and listener: that, yon / particularly, male personal third person pronoun: he / by extension from he: boyfriend

he; boyfriend