the usual, ordinary

to find / to seek, to look for / to desire, to wish / to demand, to sue, to compel

always, invariably, all the time / usually / (with a negative verb) never

important, significant

importance, consequence, significance

decision / choice

to decide / to decide on; to choose

refuse, decline

to sever / to cut off / to break off / to snap / to halt

he / distal demonstrative, something far off removed from both speaker and listener: that / boyfriend