Tom / Thom

(formal) Female third-person singular pronoun; she, her, girlfriend

(colloquial) a girlfriend (a female partner in a romantic relationship)

(literary) they (about women or girls)

to call; to call out / to call, to apply a name to someone / to send for someone, to call for someone, to get someone / to call something by a name; to designate / to invite

passive of 呼ぶ (yobu) [godan]

to be treated to (a meal)

(chiefly women's speech) first person singular pronoun: I, me

(polite) first-person singular pronoun: I, me

a personal or private matter / (by extension) selfishness