one's deceased father

not ... at all

even if ...,...cannot

very, exceedingly, awfully / (before a negative form) not at all, at all, by no means

kind, gentle, tender

gently, amiably, kindly

(chiefly women's speech) first person singular pronoun: I, me

I'm Jewish

(polite) first-person singular pronoun: I, me

a personal or private matter / (by extension) selfishness