not ... at all

even if ...,...cannot

very, exceedingly, awfully / (before a negative form) not at all, at all, by no means

kind, gentle, tender

gently, amiably, kindly

(humble, only refers to one's own) a wife (married woman)

spouse

a side dish / a tangent, a digression, something to the side of the main thing

my wife

(chiefly women's speech) first person singular pronoun: I, me