(literally) wind and water / feng shui

be based on

arrangement of resources, placement of people

allocate / deploy

a house / one's own home / a home, household / a family

(chiefly women's speech) first person singular pronoun: I, me

(polite) first-person singular pronoun: I, me

a personal or private matter / (by extension) selfishness

(formal) first-person singular pronoun: I, me

personal, private / secret