painful / イタい: (slang) cringy; embarrassing

even if one says

throat

throat

choked; smothered: Only used in 嗚咽 (oetsu, “sobbing (n.), to sob (v.)”)

Alternative form of 嚥 (en, “swallow; gulp down”): Only used in 咽下 (enka, enge, “swallowing (n.), to swallow (v.)”)

pain

he / distal demonstrative, something far off removed from both speaker and listener: that / boyfriend

distal demonstrative, something far off removed from both speaker and listener: that, yon / particularly, male personal third person pronoun: he / by extension from he: boyfriend

he; boyfriend