striking the shoulder to relieve pain / a tool for striking the shoulder to relieve pain / (figuratively) a gentle suggestion to resign from one's job

to strike the shoulder to relieve pain / (figuratively) to give a gentle suggestion to resign from one's job

painful / イタい: (slang) cringy; embarrassing

even if one says

ask someone to do something / to call; to order; to reserve / 恃む: to rely on

pain

he / distal demonstrative, something far off removed from both speaker and listener: that / boyfriend

distal demonstrative, something far off removed from both speaker and listener: that, yon / particularly, male personal third person pronoun: he / by extension from he: boyfriend

he; boyfriend

a shoulder